Stephen Chen

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About me

Hello, and thank you for reading my profile. I am a single man who has lived his life being courteous and respectful of others feelings, as this was instilled in me. I have always tried to do my best to help those who need it, and being of service to others. In the real world this does not go very well, as some perceive this willingness as a sign of weakness, and thus try to take advantage when they can. There will always be people like that, but it really depends on how you handle that. Sometimes you have to be assertive and stand up for yourself. Of course over the course of time my actions had to be modified to prevent such advantages, but remaining respectful and kind have always been my mantra.

Looking for

I am hoping that one day a wonderful woman who will read and admire what I have managed to maintain all these years. I realize that sincerity, kindness, and respectfulness, is not always what a woman wants, but it's the only set of values I have to give. As stated above being assertive and standing your ground is sometimes the only way, but thankfully people know and realize that difference in me when needed. For those who feel cheating, denigration, belittling, and deceit is the way to go, then elsewhere is where you should look. There are people I know, but not all too well, that treat their girlfriends and or wives or boyfriends and or husbands terribly (in my opinion), and they don't seem to mind it at all. Personally, I can't see it, and wouldn't tolerate it. I have learned through trial and error, speaking up is the way to correct misaligned behavior. I am hoping to find a fun loving, kind, gentle, and sincere woman, that I will love, care for and respect. It is without saying, but I feel I must, I expect all of this in return.

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