Yashu

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About me

If you want to know more, ask. But to break it down, I was in the US Army, when I injured my head and back. I currently work as a software engineer while working from home. I haven't been in an in-person relationship in years due to my own personal issues. I spend most of my time between playing video games, and reading, but I used to enjoy sports like soccer, and used to love going on walks, bike rides, and swimming ( I still love swimming). Definitely would like a swim partner, and perhaps a walking partner when I am able. I am a nerd, so expect me to enjoy some of my free time on my computer, or at a card shop - truthfully, would much rather have someone who is willing to share these things with me. I have also found myself just wondering around the mall with 0 intention to spend money just looking at things. I am not very good at flirting, or small talk, and honestly would rather just listen to you most of the time. Though sometimes I can nerd out a bit. I I am of the Christian faith, however, I don't give myself a denomination. I believe in God and Jesus Christ, but I also believe that they don't expect us to be perfect, and just hope for us to overcome adversity. I am a bit more conservative leaning, so if this causes you problems, please don't send hate.

Looking for

What is the craziest thing you would do with someone you just met? I am not superficial, but I do want to at least list out a few things I find attractive. Healthy - loves to swim (or willing to learn), or walking Intelligent - this can mean a lot of different things, but for me its primarily curiosity into the unknown - if you don't know about something, having a strong desire to learn. Nerdy - big must for me - I hope that you will be a gamer, and someone who is okay if most nights we sit in and just play a game together. The reason I am looking for someone younger is that I want someone that wants to do things - like theme parks/water parks. Gotta be open minded and accepting - I do suffer from injuries that I received while in the military. This is also why I am undecided on children. I worry about not being able to do what needs to be done as a father due to the injury. Need someone able to make me want to push myself, but someone who also knows that I will have limits, and often times that is going to mean a lot of days at home. I find that I enjoy a woman who pulls off and loves to wear sundresses, skirts, etc, or just dressing up a bit more - but at the same time doesn't mind fully casual at times. I don't want someone who is going to be out drinking, or out partying all the time. I want you to have your friends, and be able to hang out with them, I also don't want it to be a never here, always there situation. You want to find someone who wants to eventually get married, and who respects my living arrangement, and even supports it. You are okay with visiting here first (I would not expect you to pay), as due to medical reasons(back injury in military), I am not easily able to travel at this time, though I hope to in the future, as the Philippines has many beautiful and natural locations, as well as so much history (good and bad is something we should learn from). But we can 100% go to some cool places like Disney, Universal, Sea World - etc. I want you to at least have fun and have an experience. Brownie points if you have your visitor visa already :).

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